Keep her happy rule #1 – Always be yourself; don’t supplicate. There are guys out there who think they aren’t good enough to attract a jaw-dropping beautiful, sexy woman, so they put on an act. A confident man doesn’t act like this. As I write this article, I’m in Argentina, where there are plenty of amazing girls holding onto the arm of an out of shape dude with a mullet haircut. It just goes to show that women are more attracted to confidence and personality than looks.
A word everyone in any industry or vocation is familiar with. If we never had any pressure we would take a lot longer to move ourselves out of the comfortable zone and into the firing squad. And boy do indie musicians get a lot of pressure!
The first thing you have to do is to make a conscious decision to get over your ex. Some people really do not want to get over the ones they loved and left. So if you do not intend genuinely to get over your ex then this is not for you. Write it down in your agenda or place it in a conspicuous place in your office or house.
This article hopefully will help other families go in the right direction. It should give you the tools and ideas to help make your lives a little more organized and serene. I will begin by laying out the road map that my own family took to reach the goals we set for ourselves.
Most people have free time. So come to think of it, all you need is the artist oil paint. But why would anyone want to paint during their free time? Shouldn’t it be spent resting or doing something else? You have to understand that a lot of people are stressed nowadays. Most people have a lot of problems and they need a friluft so they can take their mind off of things. It would be very hard to do that if you’re just going to sit around. On the other hand, doing other things can add to the stress.
Now the biggest reason why you can’t get over your ex is because you did not fill your life with other things. People usually freeze after a breakup because they do not have anything to do. Their lives were full because they were involved with their partners. So it is now a golden opportunity to reunite with old friends, make new friends, get together with your family, find new hobbies and discover new interests.
That is important. Real life is fine as inspiration. But don’t stick so closely to the real model that you lose sight of the dramatic imperatives of your story.
It may not seem it now but I promise you as you get on with your life and get some space to yourself you will be going through the painful process of getting over your girlfriend but this is ultimately how you will get her back.